Rules and Etiquette of Tango
1. Invite using cabeceo (eye contact, a nod and/or a smile). Followers should also invite in this manner.
2. Before entering the dance floor, make EYE CONTACT with the approaching leader and only enter when you have received consented acknowledgement (usually a nod). This also means do NOT allow your follower to jump onto the floor or into the flow of dance. YOU as a leader are responsible for her.
3. Only one couple should merge onto the dance floor at a time. This means queue up and wait your turn to enter.
4. When entering, merge into the flow and dance WITH THE FLOW. Always respect the space of the couples ahead you, behind you, and next to you. Try not to tailgate or allow too much space to form in front of you. This also applies in between songs of a tanda. Too much small talk can stall up the line.
5. If you are a beginner dancer and are not yet comfortable dancing in the outer lane, it’s okay to move to inside the rotunda. It’s customary for the better dancers to want to stay in the outer lanes in order to be seen and/or show off their follower. Beginner dancers or those who prefer bigger or flashy moves should dance in the middle.
6. Keep your vocabulary limited to the space available and avoid stepping backwards against the line of dance. The couple behind you are expecting you to continue moving forward. Do small rock steps if you are not able to move anywhere. At all costs, avoid moving in and out of lanes or passing on the right (the leaders blind spot). It’s always best to stay in your place in your lane until the end of the tanda. (Hint: good leaders will pick who they want to dance behind to ensure a pleasant experience.)
7. For very crowded dance floors, shorten your steps as much as needed. Followers should also be aware of the space around them and not let their legs fly into other couples. I’ve experienced very crowded dance floors in which we moved barely a yard in a whole tanda, yet it was still pleasant as everyone was practicing good floor craft.
8. When collisions happen: smile, make eye contact to acknowledge the collision, and then APOLOGIZE even if it’s not your fault.
9. When everyone is moving at the same tempo and about the same pace a uniform rhythm forms. This is flow. You can see this flow from the outside and it’s a beautiful sight.
10. Leaders should accompany their follows back to their seats or at least back to the edge of the dance floor. CLEARING the floor allows dancers to use cabeceo for the next tanda.
Do keep in your mind that your dance should adapt to various situations.Practica’s are for practicing what you learned in a class or workshop. You are allowed to stop and discuss the movements and try out new moves as long as you do this in the center or off to the side of the dance floor. Practica’s are also a great place to practice dancing in a line and navigating the edges of the dance floor.Milongas are for dancing with new and old friends, experiencing tango bliss and socializing. No teaching or practicing is allowed at milongas. Only during the early evening or much later, when the dance floor is fairly empty that you may dance with larger steps, high boleos, back sacadas, soltadas or piernazos…. you get my drift.